Help Your Toddler Explore the World
PHYSICAL HEALTH
I can build and stack.
I like to build things up and knock them down.
SOCIAL & EMOTIONAL
I show strong feelings.
Please stay close when I'm upset. It helps me when you are calm.
HOW I LEARN
I enjoy going places.
Take me places where I can explore new things.
THINGS I KNOW
I recognize pictures.
Read me stories over and over. I can point to things I know.
LANGUAGE
I enjoy learning new words.
Tell me the words for what we see and do.
It is important to make sure your child feels safe as he or she starts to explore. Keep your home safe so you have to say “no” less often.
Your child will want to check in with you as he or she starts to explore. This lets your child know that you are still there, protecting him or her from possible danger.
Your child may want to do things you have said were off limits over and over again. This may feel like he or she is trying to disobey you or manipulate you, but is a normal part of how toddlers learn about the world around them.
Help Handling Difficult Behavior
When your child throws a tantrum or is very upset, try to step back and think about the situation. Is your child hungry, tired, or upset about something? Take a deep breath. Try to think calmly about how to help your child feel better.
Let your child know you can tell when he or she is feeling unhappy. Talk calmly about what is happening and offer some solutions. For example, “I see you are very upset. Let's sit together until you feel better”. Or “I can see you really wanted to play with the houseplants. They are not toys. Let's find something else to play with. What about these pots and pans?”
Notice the things your child does well. Tell him or her what you appreciate. This shows you care about what your child does.
Feeling Frustrated?
Sometimes it is hard to be the parent you would like to be. Have a plan for what to do when you feel frustrated or overwhelmed. Here are some things to try:
- Make sure your child is in a safe place.
- Walk a few feet away until you have calmed down.
- Take some deep breaths.
- Call a friend or relative who will listen and be caring.
It can help to share your thoughts and feelings. Make sure others who care for your child also know what to do when they feel frustrated or angry.
You can get support by talking to your health care provider, taking a parenting class, or joining a parenting group. Ask about groups and classes at your local health department, community centers or college, place of worship, clinic, or hospital. You can also call the Family Helpline at 1-800-932-4673 for help and advice.